Inspiration
We’ve put together a list of our favourite things to read about motherhood and parenting, from books to blogs and graphic novels on feminism, birth, mental health, creativity and the everyday.
We hope you find something to inspire you.
Best books on being a mother and birth parent
Pregnant Butch: Nine Long Months Spent in Drag - A.K Summers
A funny and revealing graphic novel about a butch lesbian experience of pregnancy.I Am Not Your Baby Mother – Candice Brathwaite
A brilliant account of personal experience and the political landscape as a Black mother in the UK.Diary Drawings: Mental Illness and me - Bobby Baker
A daily drawing practice that supported recovery from mental illness.Making Babies: Stumbling into Motherhood – Anne Enright
An honest, messy and funny walk through the first few years of parenthood.Motherhood So White – Nefertiti Austin
The story of a Black single adoptive mother in America during the #blacklivesmatter and Trump era.Hole in the Heart: Bringing up Beth – Henny Beaumont
A graphic novel that explores the experiences of bringing up a child with Down’s syndrome.The Best Most Awful Job: Twenty Writers Talk Honestly About Motherhood – Edited by Katherine May
Stories of motherhood that are diverse, relatable and true.My Wild and Sleepless Nights – Clover Stroud
A funny and personal insight full of the complications and intensity of mothering a big family.What Have I Done?: An honest memoir about surviving postnatal mental illness – Laura Dockrill
A vital and useful story of maternal mental healthKid Gloves: Nine Months of Careful Chaos - Lucy Knisley
A sweet and funny exploration of pregnancy with cartoons.Nobody Told Me: Poetry and Parenthood - Hollie McNish
An honest, funny and political account of pregnancy and the first two years as mother using poetry and prose.Mother: An Unconventional History – Sarah Knott
A rare collection of historical stories and snippets from mothers over the centuries, woven together with the author’s own experience.We Live for the We – Dani McClain
A brilliant account of the political, social and creative aspects of raising a Black child in America.Skint Estate: Notes from the Poverty Line – Cash Carraway
A powerful account of being a single mother living in ‘austerity Britain’.Motherwell: A Girlhood – Deborah Orr
A fascinating account of growing up and the legacy of a complex mother-daughter relationship.Argonauts - Maggie Nelson
A literary and complex account of building a queer-family.My Black Motherhood – Sandra Igwe
The journey of a young Black mother, coping with sleepless nights, anxiety and loneliness after the birth of her first daughter.
Remarkable journals from the past
18th century
Fanny Burney - Journals and Letters
A memoire, political and social history, and a letter to a certain ‘Miss Nobody’
19th century
Ida B. Wells - The Memphis Diary – An Intimate Portrait of the Activist as a Young Woman
African-American teacher, journalist, civil rights pioneer and suffragist
20th century
Adrienne Rich - Of Woman Born: Motherhood as Experience and Institution
A personal and political account of motherhood
Anne Frank’s House - Dreaming, Thinking, Writing
Diary of a 13 year-old Jewish girl hiding from the Nazi Occupation in World War II
Frida Kahlo - The Diary of Frida Kahlo: An Intimate Self-Portrait
By the Mexican artist and revolutionary
Virginia Woolf - A Writer’s Diary
British writer and diarist, author of ‘A Room of One’s Own’
Anais Nin - The Diary of Anais Nin, Volumes 1-4
By the French-born writer and eroticist
Best blogs
Tell me a good birth story
Natalie MeddingsMaddie’s Musings
Maddie McMahon – doula and author of Why Mothering MattersSmalltimemum1
Eve CannavanPND and Me
Rosey WrenBirth, Art and Culture
Laura Godfrey-Isaacs for All4MaternityThe key to maternal mental health? Make it a collective experience again
Carmine Pariante & Hannah Lamdin for Mental ElfJournaling in Pregnancy: Maternal Mental Health Improved by Creative Activities
Amy Dignan for ArtlystInspire the Mind
Mental health blog by the Stress, Psychiatry and Immunology Lab
This week I have by Hannah Lamdin
Hannah, one of our Founding Mothers, created this brilliant poem, charting the daily tasks and hidden nature of a mother’s work.
On motherhood and creativity
Letter to My Daughter - Maya Angelou
Dear Ijeawele, or a Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions - Chimamanda Nogozi Adiche
Motherhood: Poems About Mothers - edited by Carmela Ciuraru
Disabled Mothers: Stories and Scholarship by and about Mothers with Disabilities - edited by Gloria Filax & Dena Taylor
Revolutionary Mothering – Love on the Front Lines – edited by Gumbs, Martens & Williams
Reconciling Art and Mothering - edited by Rachel Epp Buller
Feminist Art and the Maternal - Andrea Liss
The Rainbow Way: Cultivating Creativity in the Midst of Motherhood – Lucy H. Pearce
An encouraging and supportive book that helps you tap into your creativity.